A traditional Thai wedding ceremony possesses a very special charm and romance. As one of the most important moments in life, a wedding is made truly special by the sacred customs of Thailand.

According to Thai tradition, one of the groom's closest friends formally asks the bride's father for her hand in marriage. He also assists in negotiating the amount of the dowry (Son Sod), which is paid to the bride's family as thanks for raising their daughter. To determine the wedding date, an astrologer is usually consulted to find the most auspicious day for the ceremony, which typically takes place in August. The evening before the ceremony, the couple pays tribute to their ancestors in a Buddhist ceremony led by nine invited monks.

The actual wedding ceremony takes place early in the morning around 6 a.m. Nine monks are invited again to bless the couple. A thread forming a circle binds them together. After the monks' prayers, the couple presents each monk with an envelope containing money. The newlyweds then eat lunch with the monks, concluding the morning ceremony. They make a donation to the local wat (temple) for the wedding blessing.

The highlight of the wedding ceremony, called Rod Nam Sang, takes place in the afternoon. A flower garland connects the hands of the bride and groom, which are held in a wai gesture (a Thai symbol of respect). This ceremony is usually led by the highest-ranking and most respected member of the group. The couple's hands are then dipped into a water-filled shell, followed by well wishes. Afterward, the parents, close friends, and other selected guests also dip the bride and groom's hands into the water.

The ceremony lasts until dinner, which is celebrated in a lively atmosphere. Whether it's a buffet, cocktail reception, or formal dinner, expect 100 to 300 guests on your wedding day, as the invited guests will most likely bring friends and family. Also, make sure you have plenty of whisky on hand, as Thais enjoy drinking together at such celebrations. After dinner, the oldest members of the family traditionally bid farewell to the bride and groom with decorated roses.

Marriage registration or wedding ceremony?

In Thailand, many couples forgo a civil ceremony and opt for a traditional Thai wedding instead. However, it is recommended to register the marriage at the local registry office (Amphur) for future legal purposes. Foreigners must present a certificate of freedom of marriage from their embassy, ​​along with their passport. Their Thai spouse will be asked to provide a copy of their national identity card and proof of residence. The marriage ceremony does not have to take place at the same time as the civil ceremony; it can be held afterward.

Since getting married involves a considerable amount of time spent on paperwork, translation and legalization of documents, it is recommended to use the services of a Thai law firm that not only handles the legal aspects of getting married in Thailand, but can also help you have an unforgettable wedding day with its efficient wedding coordination services.